I
introduced A C Grayling’s book, The God Argument, in two earlier posts. This post presents the professor’s views on
good life.
Grayling
posits seven characteristics of a
good life.
The
first characteristic is that a good
life is a meaningful one. Meaning is “a set of values and their
associated goals that give a life its shape and direction.” Having children to look after or achieving
success in one’s profession or any other very ordinary goal can make life
meaningful. But Grayling says quoting
Oscar Wilde that everyone’s map of the world should have a Utopia on it. That is, everyone should dream of a better
world and strive to materialise that dream, if life is to be truly
meaningful.
Ability
to form relationships with other
people is the second
characteristic. Intimacy with at least
one other person is an important feature of a meaningful life. “Good relationships make better people,” says
Grayling. Broken relationships are one’s
own making, though others might have contributed to the failure.
Activity is the third characteristic. It is about doing, making or learning
something. Life would be a big bore
without its inevitable demands and obligations.
Activity is about meeting those demands and obligations. “We are animals who thrive when engaged, and
suffer from idleness,” says Grayling.
The normal human occupations can take the place of activity. But Grayling recommends another important
occupation: express one’s ideas and invite others to test them and criticise
them. This is similar to what science
does. Science invites others to test and
challenge its inventions and discoveries.
Our ideas mature when we do this.
We become fuller human beings in the process.
A
good life is consistently marked by honesty or authenticity. This is the fourth characteristic. This is about a “directness, emotional
honesty, a refusal to escape into pieties, nonsense or comforting illusions,
but above all an ability to ‘see things steadily and see them whole’...” We live in a world of compromises and
pretences and bald untruths which enslave us.
Authenticity gives us freedom. Autonomy
is a better word. Autonomy means “being
one’s own lawmaker at the core of one’s moral being.” It is the inner freedom one achieves in spite
of the constraints imposed on one by one’s upbringing, society, and other
external factors or forces.
The
last three characteristics are
highly inter-related and Grayling discusses them together. They are:
Fifth:
Manifestation of one’s autonomy:
This means that the individual accepts responsibility for the choices that
shape the course of his/her life.
Contrast this with what the fundamentalist does. The fundamentalist puts the blame for all
evils on others and goes on to impose his narrow truths on others. The fundamentalist is one of the least
autonomous individuals.
Sixth:
A felt quality of life: A person who
lives a good life (in Grayling’s sense) feels the richness of his/her
life. Obviously this richness is
absolutely different from the riches that most people run after.
Seventh:
Integrity: This is a feeling of inner wholeness or
completeness. The individual good
consists in harmony between the different elements of the soul, said
Plato. That harmony is what is meant by
integrity.
Grayling
presents this system in the beginning of the second part of his book. The first part is a criticism of religion and
theism. The second part proposes
humanism as a viable alternative to religion.
Humanism is based on the simple assertion that human beings are rational
enough to understand themselves and their positions in the world and hence make
responsible and meaningful choices which in turn will make life much more
beautiful and meaningful than any religion or belief in god(s) can.
When
religions have done so much harm in the world, it is a good idea to think of an
alternative.
The
two earlier posts inspired by Grayling: